suddenly i could hear one of the neighbors, do-do, talking loudly in the living room. when his roommate came over & they started fussing at each other, louder over the volume of the TV, that's when i screamed from my room 'SHUT UP!' to all of them. eventually they got quieter and went outside for a bit; then came back inside to watch their movie. no one is allowed to visit or stay in the house except me & my 2 roommates; its in the contract agreement that we ALL signed.
it took me forever to calm down & go to sleep that night. plus, i stewed about it all day yesterday. when i got home from my errands i had planned on talking to J about the guys coming over monday night. at first J pretended to not know what i was talking about...that's when i blew up at her. as i'm screaming at her recounting the incident to her, J still insisted that she didn't know that i had been the one who yelled 'shut up!' to them, claiming she thought it was do-do who had yelled it. i told J that she should have never let them in the house to begin with; that's when J tried to blame T for letting them inside. i informed J that i already talked to T and shot down her lie right then; reminding her that she is a grown woman and that all she had to do was escort them out of the house.
J tried to act pitiful and manipulative by asking why i was yelling at her like a stepchild. i replied that i'm pissed off and i have every right to be angry at her for what happened monday night. finally i told her that i'm done talking about it and that if it happened again i would call the case manager and report it. J kept trying to be manipulative with her remarks about my yelling at her; i kept repeating that i was done talking about it and finally stopped replying to her.
before she walked out of the house i did apologize for screaming but that's at it.
J didn't come back until after 10:30 last night, and do-do was right behind her walking into the house. i started yelling at him to 'get out of the house now!'. both J & do-do claimed that C (the case manager) had given him special permission to come get his movies. i told both of them that i'm calling C since i didn't believe she would say that without notifying me & T about it. C didn't answer her cell or the texts i sent her.
Eventually he left.
First thing this morning C returned my call and said she did NOT give him permission to come over at all. they will deal with him later today for breaking the rule.
When J got up she came and asked me 'why did i hate her so much?'
we had a long talk this morning & i clarified that i did NOT hate her but i hated being lied to. i also despise do-do coming into the house...he's loud & obnoxious and i don't trust him!
i still don't believe half of what J says to me regardless of how truthful she claims to be. part of me thinks she's a con-artist playing the pitiful old lady bit. especially when she makes 900 excuses for her actions. until i see proof my suspicions will remain.
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